Sometimes is hard to tell if someone really likes you.  There are the obvious signs of attraction which we can instantly notice.  Yet there are hundreds of hidden signals that we miss every time we meet the one we want.  Try looking a little harder for the signs and see if they really feel the same way too.

                Let’s start with the eyes.  The first thing you usually notice is the long gaze you get from across the room.  Eye contact is a giveaway sign that there is attraction.  But did you know that when we see someone we like it is our eyebrows that react first.  They will raise then fall again usually without you even knowing you did it.  When talking to the person you want just see if you can spot this as it is a tell tale sign of lust.  You should also look into their eyes and watch the size of their pupils.  Usually the pupil will increase in size causing you to blink more.  That is why flickering your eyelashes is usually a sign of flirtation which is associated with women even though men do it just as much.

                The next thing you should take note of is the body language.  The most obvious sign is if the person leans in.  This is a sign they are interested in both you and what you are saying.  If they nod gentle as you speak you can be sure this is an added reassurance that they like you.  The other most obvious sign regarding body language is when the person you’re with you copies you.  It is believed we are attracted to people who like the same things we do so by mirroring you they are flirting but also showing you they have the same interested and hobbies.  People tend to only copy positive gestures and many people don’t realizing they are doing it.  If you use this technique to flirt back be sure not to make it look like you are mimicking the person and also leave a time of about 45 seconds before you mirror them.  This will make it less obvious and more flirtatious.

                The next signal is easy to read.  Usually a person will point their body to the place where they hold the most interest.  With a man usually they will point their feet or legs in your direction if they are interested.  Also he may sit with his legs open in order to show off his gentiles and appear masculine, the alpha male so to speak.  With a woman, she tends to push her best feature towards you whether it’s her face, breasts or legs. 

                Finally contact.  If a person repeatedly touches your hand, arm or elbow this can be a sign of sexual attraction.  It can be a simple signal to let you know they wish to be close and to feel you.  If they repeated stroke themselves on the arm or face this can also be a sign they wish to feel you too.  It can be a way for them to show what they wish to do to you.  It’s very sexually and personally, a sign of lust and attraction.

                So next time you’re on a date take a few sections to read the signals to find out if they’re really interested.  It could save you a lot of time and a lot heartache maybe even helping you find that perfect partner.